Actually I think this is one of the great questions of our time. Many battles have been fought and divorces granted over this issue. My household is equally divided and over the years we have reached an uneasy peace, much like North and south Korea. In other words all hell could break out at any time, but the truce is holding. It boils down to whoever replaces the empty tube gets to determine dirrection. Yes life is full of comprimises.
If your to busy to go hunting, your just to busy.