Any word hellbilly on any of the conditions you mentioned? prayers are sent and being sent... my prayer is for God to give you comfort during this time of stress. I know the feeling when it seems like everything that can go wrong does. Stay strong man, for your family, you are their rock.
...and on that day when my strength is failing, the end draws near and my times has come, still my soul will sing Your praise unending, ten thousand years and then forevermore!