Any word hellbilly on any of the conditions you mentioned? prayers are sent and being sent... my prayer is for God to give you comfort during this time of stress. I know the feeling when it seems like everything that can go wrong does. Stay strong man, for your family, you are their rock.
...I am not skilled to understand, what God has willed, what God has planned, I only know at His right hand, stands One who is my Savior....