I'm really enjoying this discussion and this exchange of ideas. It is very interesting.
I get the Christian view and your view of abortion and gays and the lesbians. That's all good. But what I don't get is why you think the government has a role and a right to tell those people how they should live their lives? It's not the government's business.
I also guarantee you DO know someone who has had an abortion and you do know someone who is gay and a lesbian. They have just chosen not to tell you about it or you haven't noticed because, as you said, you don't worry about.
Love to all, brother. Jesus wanted it that way!